Are You Sick And Tired Of Getting Rejected By Women?

Discover The Secrets That The Top 1% Sexworthy Men In The “Inner Circle” Know That Help Them Avoid The Dreaded FRIENDZONE And Start Dating Beautiful, Amazing Women That Your Friends Will Be Jealous Of….Even If You’re Not Freakishly Muscular, Neck-Breakingly Good-Looking, Or Filthy Rich.



Read on if and ONLY IF you are a single Singaporean man who seriously wants to take control of your dating life…

A Personal Message From J D Reuel.

Hey there,

Have you ever looked around you and seen some average-looking men with beautiful stunners around their arms…

And wondered, “Just what is it about them that this woman finds irresistible?

Maybe that guy someone you know—and no, he isn’t swimming in dolla billz.

Neither is he David Beckham handsome or fit.

In fact, he’s so unremarkably average that you just can’t figure out what she sees in him at all.

This was the question I asked myself 10 years ago…

Because here I was, single and never had a girlfriend.

Every girl I had a crush on either put me in the friendzone or straight up rejected me.

And whenever that happened, my close (female) friends would just give me a comforting pat on the back and say that I should “just be myself” or that “one day I would find someone for me”.

Back then, I sincerely believed that.

I thought, “Well, It must be true if everyone is saying the same thing.”

You see, I—like many guys—used to think that relationships are something that just spontaneously happen.

Something that cannot be planned for or controlled.

Dating women I was attracted to wasn’t something that could be learned.

Or, so I thought.

Until I saw something happen in front of my very eyes that totally changed my reality…

It was just a very regular day.

I had just watched a movie alone and was wandering around the city because all my friends were “busy”.

While I was walking and lost in thought, I saw this girl about 10 meters in front of me.

She looked like an angel.

Think Singaporean Emilia Clarke. Dark, wavy hair. Cute features. Fashionably plain. Not too much make up.

Then, out of the corner of my eye, a figure shot past me.

It was a man. He walked straight up to her and stopped her.

Must be her friend,” I thought at first.

But the stunned look on her face told me that she didn’t know who she was.

Curious, I continued to watch as they were talking. Her look of confusion slowly morphed into the most adorable smile I’d ever seen.

She started to look away coyly as if he’d said something that made her blush.

“What did this guy say to her?”

They continued to chat for the next 10 minutes. At this point, I started to feel a little creepy standing there and watching them and so I started to walk away.

At that moment, I saw him take out his phone and pass it to her. She took it and keyed something in before returning to him.

“She’s giving him her number?

He took his phone back, said something that made her break into laughter, and extended his arms…

She leaned in and gave him a hug before they parted ways.

It was that EXACT MOMENT that I realized we have been LIED TO all these while.

Our family and friends are lying to us—but not because they want to see us fail…

They simply don’t know what they are talking about.

See, I’m sure no one as told you that you could just walk up to a girl and meet her like that.

Think about it.

For some reason, in Singapore, you either dated your childhood friend, friend of a friend, or a colleague.

Sure, we see movies about chance encounters on the street…but that’s “just in the movies” and not realistic. So, why leave love to chance?

The question no one asks is, “Why can’t you create your own chance?

It doesn’t have to be a spectacular chance meeting where you bump into each other while turning the corner or anything.

You can just walk up and say hi—in the most normal way without being creepy of course—wouldn’t you agree?

And, I’ve PROVEN that it IS possible to turn from a dateless, virgin to SWIMMING IN DATES week in, week out.

See, for the past 4 years I have dived into HUNDREDS of personal development and self-help resources out there.

I’ve studied the leading communication theories and psychologyand applied it to real-life situations with real women.

More importantly, I have gone out to the streets and met over a THOUSAND different women.

And, also, you probably won’t know this but…

I used to have a blog, The Social Lifestyle, where I shared my experiences and tips to help guys to get better with women.

(I have since taken this down.)

From my blog, there have been several men who have contacted me asking me to coach them.

Initially, I thought it was a good idea to start coaching. But after 2 years of doing that, I realized that it was a mistake.

To be honest, not everyone is “coachable”. And by selling the idea that any man can just go out and attract beautiful women is a lie that just didn’t sit right with me.

It’s because from my experience, I realized that the only men who actually set out on this path of personal growth and GET RESULTS have a certain “X-factor”.

Which is why I stopped coaching for a while and left the whole “pick up” community.

But, thankfully, after talking to the few students of mine, I realized that perhaps maybe there is an alternative to just teaching men how to pick women up.

Which led to the birth of a brand new, gamechanging “inner circle” for men who are absolutely serious about self-mastery and personal growth.

Introducing The Social Gym

Singapore’s revolutionary EXCLUSIVE club for men to elevate their relationships and dating life to a whole new LEVEL

The Social Gym goes beyond being a “pick up” artist.

Because if you’ve seen the current state of the PUA circle, you’d notice one very crucial thing…

That it’s become just a wasteland of scammy “gurus” with great marketing pages and penis-measuring contests happening everywhere.

It was a real problem that led to me temporarily leaving the community.

I’d always wanted to create something real. To create a space for fellow men to gather and improve their dating lives by, ironically, removing the focus on getting women.

And to focusing on SELF-MASTERY and being your best self.

And The Social Gym aims to provide that space.

So, what will you get as a Social Gym member?

☑ Rediscover relationships from a brand new perspective. Forget “conventional” pick up advice about how to get women. You don’t have to (and shouldn’t) be dedicating a set amount of time every day to go out and talk to women.

☑ Reignite the fire of passion and motivation for LIFE and growth. You will never walk alone with our growing but close-knit community of men who are pursuing a common goal—self-mastery.

☑ Reevaluate your life purpose and goals. Gain full access to a community of like-minded men and a growing body of knowledge, ideas, and experiences. Discuss, debate, and distill ideas into practical action steps that will take you forward in your life.

☑ Regular and repeated accountability. The Social Gym is not a one-time “boot camp” where knowledge is dumped onto you in exchange for money. It is a non-judgmental space for personal growth where every single member is accountable to each other. No man is left behind.

☑ Rewrite your personal destiny. This is something that will definitely change the “game”. It is a place where men from different walks of life come together and create something great. Your contribution will be a part of history, cemented in the annals of time.

Now, The Social Gym is NOT for everyone…

And I’m not saying this just to convince you to be a part of this.

Trust me, even if you are really interested, you might not make the cut.

And that’s perfectly alright. Don’t take it personally. Realize that not everyone is in the right stage in life to be an asset to the group.

Use the feedback and grow, and in time, with the right focus, you might be accepted.

The Social Gym will be a long-term thing, and I know deep in my heart that it will grow into something GREAT.

Even if you don’t get a chance to be in the inner circle now, don’t worry. We can still keep in touch.

With that said, you’re probably wondering what it takes to be a Social Gym Club Member.

Good question.

If you are a man who,

☑ Knows what he wants in life and is hungry to achieve it but may not know the way to get to his goals

☑ Is willing to do whatever it takes, no matter how tough or impossible it may seem, in order to accomplish a task

☑ Lives by the motto, “Stay Humble; Hustle Hard” and is willing to learn and put in the work even if there is no glory or recognition in doing so.

☑ Has a non-judgmental attitude towards people and ideas, and is open-minded and strong enough to take and give criticism.

☑ Has full conviction in the belief that mastery over desires, impulses, and the self is the key to success and happiness in life

☑ Understands that we are all humans and are, therefore, flawed—but that the willingness to learn and grow trumps your accomplishments

☑ Believes that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts and is willing to actively contribute to the improvement and development of The Social Gym

Then, The Social Gym welcomes you with open arms.


I know what you’re thinking…

That this sounds like just another marketing campaign.

Maybe you’re skeptical about my intentions and think that I’m just taking advantage of vulnerable and desperate people.

If you think that’s the case, then you’re more than welcome to close this window and move along.

Because, honestly, I’m not here to convince you to join the cause.

I’m not looking to grow The Social Gym into an online community where thousands of men gather virtually and give their opinions with no proof.

The Social Gym exists in the real world, where men MEET, SHARE, and GROW together as brothers-in-arms.

And, no, it won’t be just a bunch of “headless chickens” running around and mass approaching women.

In fact, I strongly discourage that. Meeting women should be something that is part of your life; incorporated into your daily routine.

Whether you’re on your way to someplace, out with friends, or just spending some alone time.

So, I won’t sugar coat it and tell you that it will be easy or fun. As the legendary Tyler Durden said, “Self-improvement is masturbation. But, self-destruction…”

The Social Gym will be tough. You will be uncomfortable. You will have to deny your impulses and push yourself further than what you think you are capable of.

Past the pain. Past the excuses.

You will destroy your mental barriers that are holding you back from greatness.

And, more importantly, you will help others destroy their mental barriers as well.

So, if that sounds too tough for you. Leave now.

I’m serious.

Still here? Good. Because I’m about to share with you how to be a part of The Social Gym.

Now, when I say I want to keep the Social Gym Inner Circle small…

I mean really small.

And that means I am limiting the inner circle to the first 20 qualified people.

If you’re still reading this, it’s likely that you will be a great addition to The Social Gym.

But there’s still something we have to clarify before I invite you in:

There is a stringent selection process.

Which means I have to meet you in person and know a bit more about you before I can welcome you to The Social Gym.

Simply fill your contact details and we will get in touch very soon.


“But J D, how much does The Social Gym membership cost?”

Because this is a membership, there are fees involved.

But to be honest, the amount of value you will get out of being a part of this groundbreaking movement overshadows any amount in dollars.

Ask yourself, how much is changing your life worth to you?

$3,000? $2,000? $1,000?

Not even close.

To be a part of The Social Gym inner circle, all you have to commit is $597 per year.

That’s it.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not doing this for the money.

In fact, I will be transparent with you and tell you that none of this is for my personal profit.

There are administrative costs, venue-booking costs, etc that require money. And 100% of the money will go into paying for necessary expenses.

I repeat, NONE of this will be going into my pockets or personal expenses.

What You Can Expect As A Social Gym Inner Circle Member

☑ Personal Growth Plan

Nothing great has been accomplished without proper planning. We will come together to assess each other and set goals. Apart from a circle of accountability, you will have access to a tracking system to give a strategic AND tactical view of your strengths and weaknesses.

☑ Monthly Accountability Meet-ups

You will forge strong bonds with fellow inner circle brothers who will be with you every step of the way. More than that, we will hold monthly accountability meet-ups to make sure that every single member is kept on track in their personal growth. No man will be left behind.

☑ Access to Events and Conferences

To encourage personal development and constant learning and improvement, Inner Circle members are encouraged to attend seminars, conferences, and events that are beneficial for personal growth.

☑ And much more…

Right at this very moment is your FIRST TEST.

I’ve shared everything about The Social Gym with you.

And if you’ve gotten this far, I can say that you believe that The Social Gym is something that will change your life for the better.

The only question is, will you take the first step?

Or, will you let life and indecision get in the way.

If you still want to think about it, that’s understandable. But don’t take too long to consider.

I’m only inviting the first 20 qualified people. Once the inner circle is full, I won’t be taking anymore requests from anyone.

So, if you feel that you are ready to make a serious change in your life, then let me know right now.

Send me your contact details and I will contact you personally to set up a date and time to meet you.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

J D.
The Social Gym