Are You Sick And Tired Of Frustrated Nights Going Home Alone…And Wishing You Had A Girl Right Next To You Around Your Arm?


I’ll Reveal The Secrets Behind The Art Of Persuasion And Charisma That No Pick Up “Guru” Out There Has Ever Taught Before. Don’t Believe Me? Well, Just Read On To The End And See If You’ll Say The Same Thing…


A Personal Message From J D Reuel.

Hey friend,

Many of you might know me as the writer of the (recently taken down) men’s dating and lifestyle blog for the past 4 years—The Social Lifestyle.

If you’re new here, welcome.

Well, in the past few months I’ve been working on something incredibly exciting here. Many guys have been messaging me asking me what’s going on.

Why did I take down my blog?

Here’s the thing: I felt that there community was too saturated with phoney “gurus” flooding the community with their bs.

And so I wanted to go back underground

My original plan was to gather a small group of inner circle men dedicated to transforming their dating lives…and taking them to the next level.

It was originally meant to be a secret, closed-doors group.

But then someone gave me an even better idea. Something that will shake up the pick up community and force many of the “gurus” to up their game and put their money where their mouths are.

I Will Take 4 Inexperienced Guys Who Are Absolutely CLUELESS With Women…And Transform Them Into Charming Casanovas In Just Four Weeks

I would literally arm them with the seduction blueprint I developed over the last 4 years…

And set them loose on the streets of Singapore.

Coaching them all the way from how to stop a girl with confidence to getting her to be more *ahem* intimate in the bedroom.

Of course, there are limits to what I can help them with…and depending on what they’re personal goals are…

I will guide all 4 of them personally throughout their journey to become fine young gentlemen.

Let Me Tell You That This Will Be No Easy Feat

In the past 4 years coaching over a hundred Singaporean men, I realized one thing…

Attraction can be scripted.

Forget all the feelgood motivational stuff that other “gurus” put out there.

Sure, they’re great. But they do nothing to help you attract women.

I know because I used to be a ra-ra-motivational-video junkie.

I would spend hours every day watching video after video to hype myself up. But when I actually went out to the streets to meet women…

All I “learned” would be thrown out the window and forgotten.

I Knew I Needed Something More Concrete…A More Structured But Extremely Fluid Framework For Interactions

Everyone in the community talks about “natural game” or “just being yourself”.

But just think about it for a second

Yet they can adapt to the circumstances and still come across as genuine and natural in the moment. So there’s no reason why human interactions—if you want to be purposeful—should be left to chance.

Sure, you can “be yourself” and talk to the girl for hours without even being a little bit closer to getting her to like you. That’s not what I’m aiming to do.

What I believe is that if you believe you are the best person for her, then it is perfectly ethical to show her that and get her to like you. You are merely moving the attraction process along.

In no way am I advocating you make people do what they don’t want to in the first place.

(Come on, girls aren’t that stupid)

Until I Discovered A Secret That Changed The Way I Approached “Game” And Pick Up

See, for the past 4 years I have dived into HUNDREDS of personal development and self-help resources out there.

I’ve studied the leading communication theories and psychology…and applied it to real-life situations with real women.

More importantly, I have gone out to the streets and met over a THOUSAND different women.

And all these have been useful, but there was still a “missing piece” of the puzzle—one that I’ve been trying to find for years.

It was only until recently that I realized the exact reason why even though I—and so many guys in the community—spent years trying to improve myself, I still couldn’t get the consistency in attracting women.

And it’s something that “naturals” use very, well, naturally. Even so, I only started to notice them using it “post-aha!” moment.

These guys who were successful with women all somehow knew this one secret that set them apart from 90% of date-less, “one-woman” men.

Introducing The Social Gym

Singapore’s revolutionary EXCLUSIVE club for men to elevate their relationships and dating life to a whole new LEVEL

The Social Gym goes beyond being a “pick up” artist.

Because if you’ve seen the current state of the PUA circle, you’d notice one very crucial thing…

That it’s become just a wasteland of scammy “gurus” with great marketing pages and penis-measuring contests happening everywhere.

It was a real problem that led to me temporarily leaving the community.

I’d always wanted to create something real. To create a space for fellow men to gather and improve their dating lives by, ironically, removing the focus on getting women.

And to focusing on SELF-MASTERY and being your best self.

And The Social Gym aims to provide that space.

So, what will you get as a Social Gym member?

☑ Rediscover relationships from a brand new perspective. Forget “conventional” pick up advice about how to get women. You don’t have to (and shouldn’t) be dedicating a set amount of time every day to go out and talk to women.

☑ Reignite the fire of passion and motivation for LIFE and growth. You will never walk alone with our growing but close-knit community of men who are pursuing a common goal—self-mastery.

☑ Reevaluate your life purpose and goals. Gain full access to a community of like-minded men and a growing body of knowledge, ideas, and experiences. Discuss, debate, and distill ideas into practical action steps that will take you forward in your life.

☑ Regular and repeated accountability. The Social Gym is not a one-time “boot camp” where knowledge is dumped onto you in exchange for money. It is a non-judgmental space for personal growth where every single member is accountable to each other. No man is left behind.

☑ Rewrite your personal destiny. This is something that will definitely change the “game”. It is a place where men from different walks of life come together and create something great. Your contribution will be a part of history, cemented in the annals of time.

Now, The Social Gym is NOT for everyone…

And I’m not saying this just to convince you to be a part of this.

Trust me, even if you are really interested, you might not make the cut.

And that’s perfectly alright. Don’t take it personally. Realize that not everyone is in the right stage in life to be an asset to the group.

Use the feedback and grow, and in time, with the right focus, you might be accepted.

The Social Gym will be a long-term thing, and I know deep in my heart that it will grow into something GREAT.

Even if you don’t get a chance to be in the inner circle now, don’t worry. We can still keep in touch.

With that said, you’re probably wondering what it takes to be a Social Gym Club Member.

Good question.

If you are a man who,

☑ Knows what he wants in life and is hungry to achieve it but may not know the way to get to his goals

☑ Is willing to do whatever it takes, no matter how tough or impossible it may seem, in order to accomplish a task

☑ Lives by the motto, “Stay Humble; Hustle Hard” and is willing to learn and put in the work even if there is no glory or recognition in doing so.

☑ Has a non-judgmental attitude towards people and ideas, and is open-minded and strong enough to take and give criticism.

☑ Has full conviction in the belief that mastery over desires, impulses, and the self is the key to success and happiness in life

☑ Understands that we are all humans and are, therefore, flawed—but that the willingness to learn and grow trumps your accomplishments

☑ Believes that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts and is willing to actively contribute to the improvement and development of The Social Gym

Then, The Social Gym welcomes you with open arms.


I know what you’re thinking…

That this sounds like just another marketing campaign.

Maybe you’re skeptical about my intentions and think that I’m just taking advantage of vulnerable and desperate people.

If you think that’s the case, then you’re more than welcome to close this window and move along.

Because, honestly, I’m not here to convince you to join the cause.

I’m not looking to grow The Social Gym into an online community where thousands of men gather virtually and give their opinions with no proof.

The Social Gym exists in the real world, where men MEET, SHARE, and GROW together as brothers-in-arms.

And, no, it won’t be just a bunch of “headless chickens” running around and mass approaching women.

In fact, I strongly discourage that. Meeting women should be something that is part of your life; incorporated into your daily routine.

Whether you’re on your way to someplace, out with friends, or just spending some alone time.

So, I won’t sugar coat it and tell you that it will be easy or fun. As the legendary Tyler Durden said, “Self-improvement is masturbation. But, self-destruction…”

The Social Gym will be tough. You will be uncomfortable. You will have to deny your impulses and push yourself further than what you think you are capable of.

Past the pain. Past the excuses.

You will destroy your mental barriers that are holding you back from greatness.

And, more importantly, you will help others destroy their mental barriers as well.

So, if that sounds too tough for you. Leave now.

I’m serious.

Still here? Good. Because I’m about to share with you how to be a part of The Social Gym.

Now, when I say I want to keep the Social Gym Inner Circle small…

I mean really small.

And that means I am limiting the inner circle to the first 20 qualified people.

If you’re still reading this, it’s likely that you will be a great addition to The Social Gym.

But there’s still something we have to clarify before I invite you in:

There is a stringent selection process.

Which means I have to meet you in person and know a bit more about you before I can welcome you to The Social Gym.

Simply fill your contact details and we will get in touch very soon.


“But J D, how much does The Social Gym membership cost?”

Because this is a membership, there are fees involved.

But to be honest, the amount of value you will get out of being a part of this groundbreaking movement overshadows any amount in dollars.

Ask yourself, how much is changing your life worth to you?

$3,000? $2,000? $1,000?

Not even close.

To be a part of The Social Gym inner circle, all you have to commit is $597 per year.

That’s it.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not doing this for the money.

In fact, I will be transparent with you and tell you that none of this is for my personal profit.

There are administrative costs, venue-booking costs, etc that require money. And 100% of the money will go into paying for necessary expenses.

I repeat, NONE of this will be going into my pockets or personal expenses.

What You Can Expect As A Social Gym Inner Circle Member

☑ Personal Growth Plan

Nothing great has been accomplished without proper planning. We will come together to assess each other and set goals. Apart from a circle of accountability, you will have access to a tracking system to give a strategic AND tactical view of your strengths and weaknesses.

☑ Monthly Accountability Meet-ups

You will forge strong bonds with fellow inner circle brothers who will be with you every step of the way. More than that, we will hold monthly accountability meet-ups to make sure that every single member is kept on track in their personal growth. No man will be left behind.

☑ Access to Events and Conferences

To encourage personal development and constant learning and improvement, Inner Circle members are encouraged to attend seminars, conferences, and events that are beneficial for personal growth.

☑ And much more…

Right at this very moment is your FIRST TEST.

I’ve shared everything about The Social Gym with you.

And if you’ve gotten this far, I can say that you believe that The Social Gym is something that will change your life for the better.

The only question is, will you take the first step?

Or, will you let life and indecision get in the way.

If you still want to think about it, that’s understandable. But don’t take too long to consider.

I’m only inviting the first 20 qualified people. Once the inner circle is full, I won’t be taking anymore requests from anyone.

So, if you feel that you are ready to make a serious change in your life, then let me know right now.

Send me your contact details and I will contact you personally to set up a date and time to meet you.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

J D.
The Social Gym